When you fall for a girl

When you start loving a girl world seems to more beautiful, things seems to be all on your way, you will never think anything other than her. You will always try to see her face early morning no matter how far you stay or how far you work, as you will always want to start your day by looking her face, and when you go to bed you will call her to speak to her before sleeping so that you can dream about her. You will exchange a lot of texts, calls, emails just to ensure everything is fine with her. You care more than anyone else can do in this world because you know she is your life and you just can’t imagine a life without her anymore. Sometimes when she doesn’t reply back you get tensed thinking what had happened, is everything alright with her??? Really, when you fall for a girl your life will change.

When you look her you will forget everything, when you look into her eyes you will say to yourself “God, why we met so late, I was searching for her till now, I wish she were mine forever”, when you speak to her you will never want your conversation to be disturbed and you will only wish this to be continued as much as possible, when you see her smiling you will feel as if whole world is watching her and everything is stopped. Isn’t love so beautiful???

When you want to propose her, when you want to tell her how much you care and love her: you will think thousand times, you will not sleep whole night, you will fear for losing her if she rejects, you will think whether she will accept you or not, and you will keep asking so many question to yourself: Is this the correct time to propose her??? Will she say yes??? What if she rejects my proposal??? What if she stopped talking to me??? What if I am late??? What if she likes/loves someone else??? That day will pass but you will feel as if it wasn’t a day but a hundred year.

When you propose her and if she says yes, then you will feel as if you are the happiest person on this planet, you will smile as if you had never smiled before, you will laugh as if you have never laughed before, you will dance as if you have never danced before, you will shout as if you have never shouted before. You will make so many promises to yourself at that time such as: you will never let her cry anytime, you will take care of her more than yourself, you will love her more than anything, you will be with her for everything, you will always make her smile and will take all her tears, you will support her all the time, and if god want her life then you will be the first to give yours.

Someday, when you think about: how you met her first time, how much courage it took to speak to her first time, how much you were scared before first talk, how you started falling for her, how much you look for her all around to have a look, how you forgets everything when she comes around. You will just smile and look at her and say “Thanks for being in my life”.

Love is not when you expect same love from your partner it is all about how well you understand each other. Love is when you see tears behind her smile, love is when you hug her whenever she is sad and say don’t worry I am there, love is when you do the things which makes her happy, love is when she fights and you say I am sorry. Love is not just to do what you like it’s all about to do things she likes and let her do what she likes.

Care is not when you expect same care from your partner it is when you are there to wipe her tears. Care is when you call back when she hangs up, care is when you text or email when she doesn’t picked up your call asking if everything is fine, care is when you hold her hand whenever she is scared. Care is not just saying I care for you it’s all about holding her hand when nothing seems to be on her way and help her in getting out.