Two choices and one to choose?
It is really hard to make a correct choice when you have huge option in place. Some say “Listen to your heart when you are stuck in making a good choice” and some say “Listen to you mind when you are stuck in making a good choice”, again it is too hard to choice anyone from those two statements. It is true to listen your heart when love matters are in place and listen to your mind for anything else as mind cannot judge difference between love and money. Mind will always choice the things which are good for us. On the other hand heart will always choice emotions, feelings, and love over anything else. Heart will always choice the things which make us feel good. Moreover, heart will always rules your soul and mind will always tries to rule you.
If we know what exactly we need and listen accordingly to heart or mind, we will make a huge difference to our life. I will give you a very real example. My friend, who recently proposed a girl, was in love with her for long. He was unable to make a decision to continue living in UK as the girl he loves live in India. He doesn’t slept for 2-3 nights thinking what should he choice. But recently that girl said “No” to him, I felt now he can decides what he exactly need from his life and he told me “Friend, I know she doesn’t love me and I knew that before proposing her, but I just couldn’t hide my feelings for her. I know she hates me know, but I can’t help. I just know one thing, I have entire life to make my career but I might not get another chance to get so perfect girl again in my life. I know getting back in her life will be impossible for me. But I know one day she will realize how much I care and love her. I am just worried that day should not be my last day.”
I bet he listened to his heart for those awesome words. It’s good to listen to your heart when you have to choose feelings, emotions, and love. But it is not always true what exactly you need is to decide what you need from your life. I will give you one more example. There was a guy, who had to choose between a girl he loves and a career he could die for. He decided to go for girl but as usual girl said “No” and stopped taking to him. He could not bear the pain and decided to die for her, he wrote a last email to her saying how much he loved and cared and ask her to reply back or else he will be no more. Later, after a week he killed himself. I was thinking if he could have listened to his mind instead of heart, then probably he would have been alive.
Wrong decisions will always give you pain and there in no way to go back. One more real life experience, one of my friends is good in software development and there was a girl how loved him more than anyone else, but he was such an idiot that he kept himself busy in making his life perfect instead of giving her time she deserves. Today he is a successful software engineer but he feels all alone as no one to care no one to love, just because he was wrong he choose a right option.
Life will never give you second chance, but will always give you lots of option to choose, a wrong decision could be painful where as a right decision could change your life forever. Make a decision by your own and think 100 times before choosing one. Best way is to take a day or two in deciding and please don’t be in hurry.
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