Love happens once in a lifetime!!!

I am not sure whether it is true that love always hurts. What I know is love happens only one time and last forever. It does hurts when you broke up or got rejected and you can feel the pain, and you will learn a lot more from it such as how it feels when your love is not around and you would try anything to get back your love in your life.

Few things I don’t understand, we always want someone to love us more than anyone has ever done. And we just can’t recognize when we find one. It takes time to know how much he/she cares for you and love you, why? Is it because we don’t want to go through the same pain again if we make a wrong choice again? But will you be able to find the same person again? I bet no. What you will do if you can’t find that person, who really loves you more than you deserve, ever again?

As I mentioned earlier, love can’t not be done from one side it can only be expressed from one end. Sometimes it takes few weeks for the other person to know how much you care but sometimes it takes a life time. Sometimes you have to do things which no one has ever done just to show how much you love her/him but sometimes your silence speaks more than your words.

I don’t understand why do we hate the same person we loved after break up? I don’t understand why we say I am happy after break up, when we start hating that person, and say I am happiest person on earth before break up, when we were in love with that person. I don’t understand these changes. We probably do this to show that “I am strong enough to handle this break up” but we do cry alone, when we recall the good times spent with her/him. Why?

I just know love is the feeling which you can’t hide and without which you can’t survive. When it happens then your life takes sudden ‘U’ turn. You not only start loving spending time with your lover but also start loving living this way. When you love someone more than yourself then you do everything to make your lover happy, you will do anything for your lover. Your happiness lies within your lover’s happiness. You would do anything to see your lover smile.

When love is in the air then you will not see anything, not feel anything other than just love in your lover’s eyes. But when same lover start hating you then love kills you from inside, and you would not bear the pain. Some die some survive.

Even after knowing a wrong choice can hurt us badly, we go for it. But when someone come to us and say “I love you!!!” we start judging without even knowing how much that person loves us. And sometimes, we start hating only because he/she loves us.

I request to all of you, please take time and try to understand how much he/she loves before making a choice. One wrong decision could hurt you or you could never get a lover like him/her again in life.

Happy love life!!!